Ruth K.Destefano of 1274 Rostraver St.;Monessen;died Sunday;Nov.17;1985;at 12:35 p.m. in the Mon Valley Hospital. She was 84. Mrs.Destefano was born June 2;1901;in Huntingdon;a daughter of the late Howard and Elizabeth Isenberg. She was a member of the First Christian Church of Monessen. Survivors include one daughter;Rita Henson;four grandchildren;Mrs.Joseph (Marsha) Roceretta;Mrs.Charles (Roxanne) Gee;Randy Destefano and Mark Henson;four great-grandchildren;David and Lee Ann Roceretta and Amy and Allison Gee;one sister;Helen Malone of Monessen;and one brother;Robert Isenberg of Huntingdon. In addition to her parents she was preceded in death by her husband;Samuel;a son;Samuel O.;a grandson;Gary;three brothers;Howard;Vincent and Wayne;and four sisters;Virginia;Dorothy;Edith and Mildred Bowers. Friends will be received Tuesday from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. in the Rhome Funeral Home;1209 Grand Blvd.;Monessen;where services will be held Wednesday;Nov.20;at 10 a.m.with the Rev.Conrad G.Auel Jr.officiating. Burial will be in Belle Vernon Cemetery. The Rhome Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.